Back to the point of this post, Allen and I opted for new clothes and weekend trips this year for V-Day. He's going fishing this weekend and I'm going to Blissdom next weekend. BUT, I thought, why don't I do something creative and inexpensive for him so that he can have something on Valentine's day. I thought perhaps a date night at home bag, I've seen those "pinned" all over the place recently. You know, a movie, popcorn, coke, candy, all in a cute little bag and ready for "date night" at home? Well, in the midst of searching for those I came across this cute idea for "Date Night In A Jar."
I tweaked it just a little and created this "Date Night In A Jar" for Allen. Okay, and for me too I'm thinking this will help in a major way when we can't decide what we want to do and neither of us wants to make the decision. Hence the reason I talked about my indecisiveness up there in the beginning.
I started with just a plain mason jar with a wide mouth. Little known fact, I have about a million mason jars in my laundry room. My grandmother cans veggies and such from the garden each year and her only request is that she gets the jars back for next year. That's right, we aren't mentioning to her that I used one for a craft project ;)
I used big popsicle sticks and spray painted them different colors. Each color represents a different type of date (and each color is explained on the tag) and the white sticks were used as fillers.
Red sticks have more expensive dates on them that require planning on our part.
- Bed and Breakfast
- Dinner at a fancy restaurant
- Hotel stay for the night
- Auburn home game and away game
- Concert and dinner (his choice)
- Concert and dinner (my choice)
- Weekend away
- Coupes Massage
Dark pink sticks have "at home" dates:
- Chopped Challenge (like the television show on FoodNetwork)
- Fondue and Almost Famous
- Takeout and board games
- 1,000 piece puzzle and pizza
- Football game and nachos
- Popcorn and a chick-flick
- Crosswords and breakfast for dinner
- Make a dessert together
- Friday Night Lights marathon
- Homemade pizzas and an Italian movie
Light Pink dates have things we can do away from home but are less expensive than the red and don't require as much planning.
- Dinner and a movie (my choice and his choice)
- Laser tag and go carts
- Mexican night at Cocina Superior
- Drive-In date
- Dessert only date
- Window shopping for the house
- Bowling
- The Melting Pot
- Coffee Date
And a little key on the back of the tag for the colors.
I'm so excited about this and it eases my indecisive mind for sure. Plus, it's a cute little craft to sit on the desk in the bedroom :)
























You are so creative! I love this!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea! Going to dig out a jar now. :)
ReplyDeleteLove, love, love this idea!!
ReplyDeleteJennifer- you never cease to amaze me!! Seriously!!! This is absolutely genius!!! I am also a very indecisive person and now I think I will be making one of these for the hubs as a belated valentines day gift!! I love it!!! Thank you!!! Xoxox
ReplyDeleteWhat a fabulous idea! I'm actually pretty excited I found your idea because it's a craft project I can actually accomplish :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea!! I think I'm going to have to borrow this. :)
ReplyDeleteAnd I want to hear more about this Chopped game! Sounds like something my husband would be all over!
This is so cute Jennifer! I'm sure the husby loved it! Also, I can 100% identify with the first paragraph of your post. Nice to know I'm not the only one! :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea!!!!!! I LOVE THIS!!!! I need to do this for us. Seems like when we do get out without child, we really don't know what to do with ourselves. This would remove all guess work! PERFECT!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a fantastic idea! I love it. I really need to do this for us. We have been bad about not getting out since we had Mason. This would really help us.
ReplyDeleteThis is so fun!
ReplyDeletewhat a great idea!
ReplyDeleteIm in the process of making one of these too!! I love yours..you did such a wonderful job!! Crafty momma;)
ReplyDeleteI lovey love love this idea! So clever!
ReplyDeletethis is so cute! omg! I love it I wish I had done something like this!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a great idea!! :)
ReplyDeleteEek! I absolutely love this. I wanted to let you know that I mentioned it on my blog here: http://jalafrye.blogspot.com/2012/02/dating-your-way-in-love.html
ReplyDeleteSo fun!!
Lindsay Frye
LOVE this idea! I too don't like to make decisions and think of everyone else before me when it comes to making them. This is an idea I can actually do!
ReplyDeleteI love this so much. My DH and I are in desperate need of date nights and working on our marriage and this seems so perfect to help out with that. I would love to know what you do for the Chopped Challenge. That is one of our favorite shows.
ReplyDeleteGreat idea, but out of curiosity, do you guys have guidelines as to when or how often you choose a stick? Do you rotate between red, dark and light pink, or is it all left to chance? @Mommy2Maddox - I too want to know about the Chopped Challenge date!
ReplyDeleteGuidelines? Really? You want RULES for date night?
ReplyDeleteI really think that your husband/boyfriend is digging for a stick that you probably did not put in the jar. It is the only stick he is looking for, hoping for, dreaming about. "No Pants Friday"
Wow....classy.
DeleteI can't believe that I FINALLY decide to start dabbling in this obsession called Pinterest, and the in the FIRST craft I click on I see Auburn! My heart did flips. WDE! My husband and I are stationed in Kansas and can't WAIT to get back to Fort Benning. I am going to make this for his birthday next month. Thanks for the wonderful idea. BTW, I might be able to take you on as the most indesisive person in the world. :)
ReplyDeleteThis is such a great idea! I am copying it!
ReplyDeleteI just found this post via pinterest. WHAT A GREAT IDEA! Every time we have to pick what to do on a date it becomes such a huge production and I am as well super indecisive. Not only am I copying this idea for myself and my hubby, you officially have a new follower!
ReplyDeleteThis could also be used for a wedding shower gift. I love this idea!!
ReplyDeleteMy mom had something like this as a chore list for my kids. She put a chore and payment on each stick. Thililt take take out trash $.50, water flowers $1.00 (she has lots of flowers), and anything else the boys might do at her house. If they wanted money for something they would work on the chore sticks and make as much as they offered, or as little as they needed. It was really a fun way for them to make money, and grandma got work done.
ReplyDeleteGreat tip!
DeleteThis is such a great idea! It's hard not to go out and buy the stuff and start now! Thanks for the amazing idea!
ReplyDeleteThanks! These are great ideas I can play with and create a system that works for us. A system helps so much when we're indecisive, doesn't it?
ReplyDeleteLove this idea!
ReplyDeleteSam
LOve this idea thank you! Love the Melting Pot too!
ReplyDeleteI love this idea! I am working on doing this for my husband and my family. I am however going to change the white sticks from fillers, to date nights that include the entire family. Thank you so much for the fun and creative idea!
ReplyDeleteThats what I was thinking!!
DeleteInstead of popsicle sticks i found color foam that is very similar to the sticks. that way i dont have to paint the sticks because they're already in 5 different colors! i plan on making this for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary of dating together. We always get stuck on things to do. loveee this idea!
ReplyDeleteIt's so nice to find someone as indecisive & ADD as I am! Most people won't admit it as freely as me...so it's refreshing to see!
ReplyDeleteThis is fabulous! I will make one for the hubby and I. But I will also make one for my daughter and son-in-law, who just had twins!!! Theirs will be one free night (or day) of babysitting, two hours of housecleaning so mom can bond (or sleep), I will bring them a homemade meal, etc...
ReplyDeleteSo cool~
This is such a cute idea! Love it.
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My husband and I have been married 32 years and are just a few months from being complete empty nesters but still working fulltime. I'm going to make this for him and hope it will solve our indecisiveness on what to do on a Saturday night.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this wonderful idea, I just finished making my date night jar with some changes. I did the same categories that you did plus another one, I added 20 blue and white stick with just restaurants on them, some new and some favorites, for when we just need to figure out what to eat! This was an awesome project, loved it!
ReplyDeleteI love your cute jar! I linked to it on our date night challenge blog:
ReplyDeletehttp://the212project.blogspot.com/2012/03/date-night-jar.html
Thanks for the inspiration!
I found your blog through Pinterest and love the idea of the date jar! I made one for my husband and I just blogged about it: http://simplysplendidlove.blogspot.com/2012/03/what-will-we-do-this-weekend.html. Thanks for the inspiration and wonderful date ideas!!! Have a wonderful weekend!
ReplyDeleteFound this through pintrest and love this idea! I will start making my own now :) Thank you soo much!
ReplyDeleteWar Eagle!
ReplyDeleteLove this idea but I might make one with just restaurants - with 2 adults, 1 fussy teen and another fussy tween - picking a restaurant for a family dinner can be PAINFUL :-) I'll use the same color sticks for all of us and then we each get to put the same number of choices in the jar so there aren't any claims of favoritism...Thank you!
ReplyDeleteSo cute!!!! I love this idea! My hubby is always trying to get me to go on more dates, but with a toddler that feels impossible sometimes. :) I think this will be a nice compromise!
ReplyDeleteMe and the hubby are making one together tonight! Such a cute idea!
ReplyDeleteLove this! Just made one....can't wait to pick something!
ReplyDeleteOh, this is so darn clever! I must show the husband and see if he will want to do one as well. Wish me luck on that. *lol*
ReplyDeleteSo cute! Just pinned this - thanks! :)
ReplyDeleteI found this via Pinterest (as a stalker - I'm still waiting for my invite!) and immediately crafted my own version using a mason jar, chalk paint, and the tongue depressors! I LOVE IT! Great idea that both me and my husband are excited about!
ReplyDeleteThat's a great idea! I'm gonna have to create my own jar soon!
ReplyDeleteI'm a single mom with no plans for date nights soon for me, but I love this idea and may use it with my little princesses. Very fun.
ReplyDeleteI'm a single mom with no plans for date nights soon for me, but I love this idea and may use it with my little princesses. Very fun.
ReplyDeleteLove this wonderful idea. Thank you so much for sharing with us :)
ReplyDeleteEvery time we watch "Chopped" on TV, I tell my hubby we should do that!
ReplyDeleteHoly Crappola! Are you in Winnipeg? I love, love, love The Melting Pot.
ReplyDeleteGenius! Love it- excellent idea for overcoming indecisiveness! Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI really like this. My husband is deployed and we're starting one now so when he gets back we will have a jar full of fun to pick from. He emails me his ideas and I add them to the jar with mine. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThat's a great idea..... please let us know what your husband thinks after doing this idea, why he likes it or why he doesn't??? Thanks
DeleteI started mine last night and will finish this evening. I used a mason jar, natural wood colored tongue depressors and a variety of fine tipped sharpie markers to draw the emblems of our favorite restaurants, pictures of date ideas like going to our local stock car race track or to our local casino (I drew part of a craps table and some dice). I was shocked at my own creativity. YAY! I'm doing this as a surprise and will be giving it to him tomorrow evening. I hope he likes it!
ReplyDeleteLOVE IT!! I will add this to my "jar" collections!!
ReplyDeleteLol.... I see that the girls are loving this idea. I would like to know what the guys think of this idea????
ReplyDeleteLove this. My bf did something similar for me for my birthday except it was a box filled with different things corresponding to each activity. Like a mariners key chain, ad from a hotel, bag of popcorn, stuff like that. He also wrote a note explaining that I could bring one thing from each category when I came to visit since we are doing the long distance thing. I loved it and was so shocked that it came from him!
ReplyDeleteThis is the most creative 'date night' project. I love the color coding, as our budget is constantly changing. Thank you for sharing
ReplyDeleteWhat an awesome idea! I hope you don't mind but I'd love to share this on my blog, my husband and I write blog posts about Marriage every Mondays. This Monday we are talking about date night!
ReplyDeleteI LOVE that one of your red sticks is Auburn games!!! WAR EAGLE!!!
ReplyDelete-Amanda Jones
Great idea! It's always hard to decide what to do.
ReplyDeleteGreat idea! It's always hard to decide what to do.
ReplyDeleteRoll tide! I had to say it. Great idea by the way. Thanks for the date suggestions. I'm really indecisive too, so I'll be entertaining this crafty DIY project.
ReplyDeleteI came across this project on Pinterest. I am also very indecisive when it comes to anything! And, living far away from family, we don't get many date nights. But I am starting to work on my own version of this as an anniversary gift for my husband. Thanks for such a great idea!
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