I can’t believe its been 6 years since Allen and I stood before our family and friends and said our vows. When I think back to the day I can remember it so vividly. The laughter and the tears. Talking to my dad before I walked down the aisle. The music, the cake and so many wonderful guests there to share in our special day. My heart was full of love for Allen, overflowing.
Here I am 6 years later and now the love for him doesn’t even compare. Not even close. It’s cliche, but I love him more and more every single day. Each passing day has brought us closer together. Each trial taught us a little more. When I see him with Braylen I fall in love all over again. I always knew he’d be a wonderful dad but he’s far exceeded my expectations.
Sure, marriage is work. Hard work sometimes. It’s not always date nights and surprises. But us? We’ve got a good groove. Our home is full of laughter and love. I think about how happy Braylen is all of the time and I can’t help but think it has to do with what she sees on a daily basis. She is loved by two people who love each other more than the anything else in this world. I think that goes a long way with a child.
And yes, we do have a great marriage, but I have to give a great deal of the credit to Allen. He is level-headed, calm and patience. He pulls me back to reality when I’m stressed out and irritated. He is my best friend and I confide everything in him. When I worry he assures me that it’s all okay and I believe him. No one in this world can make me laugh like Allen can.
I always think he’s a perfect balance for all of my not-so-great qualities. For example, Allen is one of those people who doesn’t talk unless he’s got something really good to say. When he talks, we listen. Me? I’d talk to my Erin Condren Life Planner if I thought it would help me sort through a to-do list. He’s calm and collected in a crisis. Me? I’m a crazy person, the person you don’t want in your life raft if its your boat is sinking because I’ll be in the corner freaking out.
So here’s to much more laughter, probably a few tears and years and years of love.
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Amy says
happy anniversary! what a sweet, sweet post!
Shae says
Happy Anniversary!
alongdistancelovestory.com says
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
And such a beautiful post ๐
Marie says
Such a sweet & beautiful post! Happy anniversary to you both, and enjoy the beach!!!
Happiness Is... says
Sweet post. Happy anniversary!
Jenna says
Aw! Happy anniversary!!!
Ashley Buchanan says
Happy Anniversary!
Kat says
Happy anniversary! And you are too cute. A good marriage is hard work…but work that’s worth it ๐